One point --Don't make another person's sickness your own. This colour and cosmetic issue is a sickness even for them. You can not change your skin. That is the most immature attitude besides the bully on the playgroud I have seen and heard. Plus if they had perfect features you wouldn't see the plastic surgeons atrocities walking around today or weight sickness. The keenest nose I have ever seen was on an African. Stop letting people tell you what your features are so you can totally accept the whole you. It is okay that women of colour are not identical. God is the creator not man and I am glad. That is why all women of colour should be happy. Remember a person that is unhappy with themself will always pick on those around them to gain the upper hand. If they can make you feel the way they do then that is half the gain.